
Boundaries and Edges™
Boundaries and Edges™ is a newsletter/blog that discusses the social health & wellness challenges of African American women. We bring awareness to what crosses boundaries and snatches edges. Every edition is crafted with high-achieving, over-functioning African American women in mind, blending humor, hard truths, and practical tips. With relatable insights and engaging visuals. It’ll make you cackle, cry, and aim for better. Subscribe today, and let’s grow our edges back and respect our boundaries — together!
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Laughing Just To Keep From Crying
Mean… sometimes. But here’s my point:
I have a very complex relationship with the love of my life. Not complicated—complex. There’s a difference.
He is...

Girl, Go Figure...
But fr fr ... when was the last time you really felt joy? I mean full-body, deep-breathing, heart-wide-open, nothing-else-matters joy?
If you had to think...

Don't Bite Off More Than You Can Chew
Listen, we need to talk… and before you start looking around—yes, this is an intervention. Sit down, girl. Take a deep breath, because this is...

God Willing And The Creek Don't Rise
Listen, if I’m being 1000% transparent—AMERICA is real ghetto right now. The system is glitching real bad, both loudly and quietly. And recently, a wise...

You Be Doing The Absolute Most
It’s Love Week, so let’s talk about it (yes, the week where Valentine’s Day takes center stage, and relationship dynamics get real interesting. 👀)...

Ain't Nobody Got Time For That
S/N: Ain’t no pictures, memes, GIFs, TikToks, or YouTube links TUHDAY. You just about to get this plain, unfiltered, good old-fashioned lesson. School is in...

You Dumber Than A Box of Rocks
Ladies, gather 'round. As high-achieving, over-functioning Black women, we really be out here feeling like we’re stupid sometimes. Why do I say that, you...

You Just Be Doing Stuff
We all know life be life-ing, right? It don’t sit still... and if you’re a Black woman, neither do you.
Things change...

Waiting For The Other Shoe To Drop
This is a loooong one, but trust me—it’s a GOOD ONE! 🙌🏾✨
Yeah, so stop side-eyeing your blessings like they come with a...

You Smart, You'll Figure It Out
Girl! I KNOW... you’ve heard it too—the backward affirmation hidden in that quiet (or not-so-quiet) expectation to “always figure it out.” It’s exhausting.
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Don’t Touch Nothing, Don’t Ask For Nothing, and Act Like You Got Some Sense!
Remember the stuff our mommas used to say right before we went into the grocery store? Welp! This is my before we step into 2025...

When Push Comes To Shove
Ok, so yeah… Part 2 of Who Dat In The Back, is not happening right now—basically, I’ll get to it when I get to it....