Boundaries and Edges™
Boundaries and Edges™ is a newsletter/blog that discusses the social health & wellness challenges of African American women. We bring awareness to what crosses boundaries and snatches edges. Every edition is crafted with high-achieving, over-functioning African American women in mind, blending humor, hard truths, and practical tips. With relatable insights and engaging visuals. It’ll make you cackle, cry, and aim for better. Subscribe today, and let’s grow our edges back and respect our boundaries — together!
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Why We Not Talking About This?
Come August 9, 2026, my husband and I will be married 21 years.
I am a staunch advocate for Black love. But I'll be...
Why Is This A Thing
Y'all, what is really going on with Black women and romantic relationships.
For real, for real.
And I'm not just talking about...
Why I'm The One Saying It
Earlier this year, I set out to bring relevant conversations about Black women to a couple of professional forums.
One proposal got rejected outright....
Unfortunately, This Is Not "News"
Sadly (and I do mean SADLY), folks are suddenly “discovering” through the headlines of recent unfortunate events the lived experiences of Black women across...
I Reflect The Light
I’ve done the work. And I’m STILL doing the work. The healing work.
I’ve looked at my past. I’ve named many of my patterns....
She Get It From Her Momma'
Learning
For most of my life, I followed a blueprint: Work hard. Don’t cry (or atleast try not to). Push...
Girl, Be Soft
This is my maternal grandmother, Ruby.
As a kid, she was my EVERYTHANG. You couldn’t tell me she didn’t hang...
Not Today Satan
In December, a tax professional told me my business made over $100K. She was excited. Like, confetti in the air excited. And I just blinked....
And That's My Business
Yes, I’m about to tell y’all all my business today. So please—don’t make me regret it. 😩
And if you see me in person,...
It Can All Be So Simple
As high-achieving, over-functioning Black women, we really be out here thinking we having a full-blown emotional breakdown… when in reality, we just running...
It Don't Take All That
Girl! You been out here caring about EVERYTHING. Family, work, church… and let’s not forget that man. Yeah, him—the one who ain’t changed and...
New Phone, Who Dis?
Let me tell you the hardest part about this whole wellness setup: it’s not the boundaries you keep tryna put on other people...
